Codependency Support Group

Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...

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PAMJIT
PAMJIT
Hi all

I feel like i need a break. Is it wrong to ask for a break in a relationship? I mean im not very happy at the moment, my parents dont agree with the relationship, i feel stressed all the time, and smoking cannibis helps me cope but its not they way - i feel like im going mad.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Its really hard to figure things out while being in a relationship with someone. If you are caught in the middle between your family and him, the negativity and being pulled apart are not good for one's sanity. I also think smoking pot is an escape route that makes facing your problems all the more difficult.

Clearly you want things to change, or you would not be here. Sounds like you just don't know how. Use your feelings of unhappiness as a guide. Good luck.
PAMJIT
PAMJIT
Yeh i feel and look like im run ragged!!! tyring to keep on top of it all, its affecting my health -