Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...


In addition, when you focus on others, their needs, their lives and others pat you on the back, this is 'external validation', not from within "you". Therefor getting lost, not feeling your feelings/emotions and pushing them down by keeping so busy is another tactic of sick self-care.
There are more self-care books than Heinz has pickles...the Best Book is from Coda/Alanon and the people who attend they meetings as they 'have first hand life long knowledge"...If you like self-help, check out of library or used books from a used book store...best of luck to you : ml.