Hi. I am new here. The reason I joined today was because I am having a horrible time in my relationship and I think, after reading up on it, I may be codependent. I rely on my BF for my happiness and don't feel content when I am not with him. He is an emotionally stable person, so this is taking quite a toll on our relationship. We argure constantly, and it's usually over me creating issues in our relationship that probably really are not issues. I was single before meeting him for a while and had other outlets but after meeting him I have lost all of my hobbies and put everything I have into our relationship. Basically I go to work and wait to see him. I spend half my time looking at my phone to see if he called. This is all coming to a head lately. I have spent the last week in tears and I really don't know how to fix this. I am 30 years old and I can't go on like this. I love him but I don't want to be this way anymore. Any advice or input would be greatly welcomed and appreciated.