Im codependent...that is very clear to me, I've been doing work, shared some struggles, couple days ago I noticed my on again off again boyfriends ex had started following him on a social media website, she even went so far as to like one of his pictures...why is this frustrating? This girl plays the poor me role like no other, to her, I ruined her life by taking away her first boyfriend, the love of her life, she seems
To find these ways to stay connected to him and what drives me nuts is he doesn't say anything about it, hes a drug addict so what do I expect, but he claims he's made a commitment to being honest, yet this is something I would think he would tell me instead of me finding out. I feel like telling her to take him..take him if he's that amazing and you must have him, please for the love of god don't try to keep him in your life behind my back...grrr classic codependent, I stay in unhealthily relationships way too long. I could say "he loves me so much" "he never makes me feel not loved" but I quickly reply "he lies about everything and instead of being honest, he hides, keeps his secrets his secrets for me hopefully never to know about"--it makes no sense why I do this to myself, it's a new year, come on growth and strength I need you right now