so...my mother calls me excessively. She doesn't call during the weekdays because she knows I am at work. But as soon as 5:00 hits, my phone starts ringing. I will usually talk to her 2-3 times per evening.....and when the weekends come, she will call me an average of six times a day. She wants to know exactly what I am doing, eating, where I am going, and onnnnn....if I DONT answer the phone, I will receive texts like "WTF" or "where are you" or "whatever/never mind". I am very stressed about this but don't know what to do because she has COPD very badly and I don't know how long she will live. If I say something, she will just flip out. Maybe I should stop answering her calls, but then what do I do about the texts???? Any advice. I feel like a child who will be punished if I don't respond to her every call.

Also, when I had cancer twice, she was NOT supportive. I don't know why I care. Also, I am 42, not 10.....:(

Thank you!!