Chronic Pain Support Group

Physicians and professionalsdefine pain as chronic if it lasts longer than three to six months and is persistent. It's distinct from acute pain that is a direct result of injury or trauma. This support group is dedicated to those suffering from chronic pain. Discuss treatments that have worked for you, find advice for your specific experience, and find support. You're not...

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tabby2010 12/26/2011

Hello I am going through a really bad time right now. and nobody seems to understand how much pain I am in. I have been In constant Pain for about two weeks Its to the point that I don't know what to do anymore My back and stomach are hurting so bad at the moment that I just want to scream I have tried everything from hot baths to laying down to pain pills like Tylenol nothing seems to be working. and today I started my cycle and that's just making me hurt worse. Every time I go to my family doctor they say just deal with the pain Theres nothing we can do. I am so tired of my doctor not trying to help me. I am to young to be having all of these problems. Does anybody have any advice for me I could really use it.. My family and friends don't understand how much pain I am in. I have one friend that Understands. I just wish that my family would listen to me

heatherhurts 12/26/2011

I'm sorry you are in so much pain. Unfortunately, I don't have any answers for you. I just wanted you to know you aren't alone. HUGS!!!!

tabby2010 12/26/2011

Thanks

tabby2010 12/26/2011

My Parents don't understand what I am going through I wish they would just listen to me. when I tell thenm that I am hurting they say well thats just to bad just deal with it It makes me really angery and I feel like nobody cares about me or about how I am feeling. I have good days and I have bad days

fibrolizzy 12/26/2011

Tabby, is it your lower stomach that hurts? Have you seen a gynecologist? What tests has your regular doctor run on you? I just can't believe that your doctor and parents are brushing you off like that, when there's obviously something going on.

I would definitely recommend seeing a gynecologist...it could be something like endemetriosis.

Take care, and let us know, ok?

deleted_user 12/26/2011

its a big thing here lots of us familys dont understand our pain. i know here somtimes the kids forget i waer out easier than i used to .
tabby what is it that they cannot due anything about you migth thrapy
where family is concrened ,its a gard thing to see there faces when your pain stops you i thinj you need new doc , see what new doc well say . hugs minnie

deleted_user 12/26/2011

Have you asked for a referral to a pain specialist? I know once I got that referral, my six-week-long headache was gone. No pain there whatsoever. Of course, now I hurt elsewhere, but that seems to be just part of getting older. LOL or so I keep telling myself, until I can get the test results back to see just what is going on with me.

Annie

deleted_user 12/27/2011

I know this type of pain. I have days like that when I cannot sit, stand, lay down without pain. It is rough some days. Hugsx

tabby2010 12/27/2011

I just wish that my family would just listen to what I have to say My doctor won't even listen My doctor is a stupid moron. I have told them several times That I am in pain and all they say is deal with it. I have tried to deal with it. and live with the pain But I can't stand it anymore.

deleted_user 12/27/2011

you need to see a dr who will treat you, if you have that sort of pain there it could be really serious. please seek help and don't give up until you get a dr who takes you seriously.

tabby2010 12/27/2011

Yes i do need to find another doctor I am looking for one. that Will listen to me The one I go to now they make you come in for your blood test results and they don't explain what everything means

MaggieSavedMe 12/27/2011

you know I agree if your doctor is not helping you its time to find a new one.. My problem with calling them when I hurt so much is that they will think its all in my head..

My husband listens to me as to my kids about the pain I am in but I hoenstly to not think they realize the intensity of the pain I am in , Its really hard to get them to understand it.. Sure to wish I had the answers you and many others are looking for.

maddiesgrammie 12/27/2011

its important thst you keep telling your story.it does noy matter how many drs you will see.please dont let yhat discourage you,because there is a dr out hereto help you.you will know which one is right for me.i always tell tmem i demand he be ioo honest to me both bad good news.i think he feels less stress cause he knows i want all the cards on the table praying 4 gods daily devined steps,

tabby2010 12/27/2011

Yes I am going to keep telling my story until someone listens to me. My docor said to me one time when I went to him complaining about my pain he said its all in your head. Theres nothing wrong with you We can't find anything when we do the ultrasounds I told them they need to run more test but they said theres no reason to.

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