Seems to me that Blondie chick started all the fighting in here. For those of you that werent here you're lucky. What a drag that some people have to ruin it for everyone. Like some drunk idiot yelling FREEBIRD! in the middle of a great song THEY should be thrown out of the club.

We have to remember that we are being moderated and they may close post or even bann without a member reporting. So if you all remember she did go off on CC and that may have been it. Not that he reported her at all CC gets some abuse and I dont think he reports anyone if that was the case I would be gone as I have gone around with him.

Not saying either way, but as a member you really need to be careful and word things right as either the moderator or other members some may be just lurking behind the scenes may get offended to the point they may report not knowing the whole situation.

You gotta think if you were new and joined and read who would you think is good or bad just depending on a couple of post. I remember the whole blondie thing that was a mess and that lady had some issues and alot of people got the letter and some got banned.

But as a group I think we are tight and can be open and tell people like it is and hopefully they can take it, just do not do it to far.

I understand Manny but who else is going to put up with us. We are a chronic pain board and should be allowed more lee-way in the Bitchy area because, hey we are in pain. lol I know I can be a bitch but I do not mean any harm just a place where I feel free to vent.

I love you guys!
Hugs
Kallie

I have observed that usually it is when someone makes a direct, offensive remark to or about another member is when someone gets banned. Kallie you have never done anything remotely close to that.

Oh yes Beatle she - the blonde chick - got me a nice little letter ans from memory you were given a holiday along with a few others.
She has a lot to answer for.
BUT
There was another problem about 12 months prior to that involving a few other people - some of whom are still members of DS so I will not give names. It was really nasty and I don't think it got quite to the point of anyone being banned - but things were run by Doug at the time and handled differently and some of us left the board and others stayed and life went on until the blonde came and caused havoc. I have my own thoughts as to who that really was but no proof and I think she has gone - certainly for this board in any case.

Just wish we could get this board to a point without this constant reporting, warnings and bannings. It does seem strange that Misa's account is closed though if she had not mentioned about doing that to anyone. We should be mature enough to deal with the problems that arise here without running to the tattle to the DS Admins all the time. But seems that is not the case. But I live in hope...............ever the optimist.

I heard from her on the 8th of May...she sounded fine.
-Jennifer

That is so cute. Have a wonderful day.

My understanding from some other members, who will remain un named, is that she was banned due to comments on a thread about another member.

I don't know what happened because I don't frequent the big board.

I will say that Misa was always very sweet to me and that she made some incredible gestures of friendship to me that touched my heart and I will always, always be grateful and thankful to have met her.

Yes I heard that too Duckie - from someone in another part of DS.
But why isn't she answering her emails?
Maybe she is upset over what happened and doesn't want to talk about it yet?

Need to send you a pm.

Very sad. I'll miss her.
If someone who's in contact with her would PM me I'd like to send her an email or something to stay in touch.

I find it fascinating that some get banned so easily and true chief instigators never seem to. All the instigators must do is claim some kind of mental or emotional disorder and they have no accountability.

TO THE UNNAMED OFFENDERS---PLEASE STOP ABUSING THE ABUSE BUTTON! TO DS --- PLEASE STOP BELIEVING THE PEOPLE ABUSING THE ABUSE BUTTON!

To Misa: I hope all is well.

Is it me or did everyone regress back to high school?

It's not you Beatle.

It seems that at the moment, on here, anything said is under scrutiny and one word out of place and you risk having a holiday.

Just wish that everyone would start to deal with things in a more mature fashion.