Tabby are you still in the ER? What happened?

No I am back home they did not find the cause of my pain they gave me some pain medine and sent me home. They did tell me to rest and take it easy they also said that a lot of my pain could be caused by stress.

maybe cut out all dairy for awhile and see if it helps, also many people are gluten sensitive, thats a hard diet to follow, but worth not having stomach pain.

Im sure your mom is just throwing that at you as she told you it was nothing. I dont suppose you are going to the doctors to have them investigate it a little more. I mean if it hurts so bad you go to ER when the pain pills run out the pain will come back if you dont find a way to fix even if it is stress some therapy would help

I am going to the docor to have them investigate more because its still hurting If feels like something is stabbing me I am going to try and cut out all daily prooducts and see if that helps The pain will come back once I am no longer taking the pain pills

What kind of tests did they end up running?

You might also try cutting out caffeine and then gradually adding it back in (same with dairy) to see if that makes a difference.

They did blood test and ex rays and an ultrasound. I am going to try and cut out caffenine totally but thats going to be hard for me. to do If I don't have caffinne I get really bad headaches.

For stomach pain an endoscopy and colonoscopy can both rule out a lot of sources. The latter isn't pleasant but it would rule out things like colon cancer and any fistulas or lower intestines abnormalities. When you go back to your doctor try to shoot for one of those tests. Your PCP should try to refer you to a gastroentenologist if he can't order the tests himself.

I'd also make that appointment with the gyno. Some ladies with endometriosis have pain all month long. That can't be seen on an ultrasound. You have to get a laparoscopy to rule it out. It's a short surgery but still a surgery.

The only problem that they found on the ultrasound was that my uterus is sideways. I don't know what that' means They said to contact my doctor as soon as possible. I have had one pap smear done that was a year ago but I have not had one since I am going to make an appointment with a gynecologic s as soon as possible cause now i am worried.

so if your having problems with your caregiver then why didn't you tell them???? I saw on your other post today which is 12/18/12 that your mom doesn't give a dam.......you had the opportunity when you were at the hospital and your aunt was with you.There are plenty of ways for you to get help and if your not going to then do not post nothing about me. I have been trying to help you for over 5 years tabitha and if you don't want to get the help then there's nothing anyone can do for you. Your mom leaves all the time to go places you have plenty chances to call and get the help. If you went to the ER for stomach pain it seems like they would do more then check your blood and sugar and ultrasound.........

Pugglemom I know this might not be fair to put you in this position, but what can you tell everyone here who has been trying to help tabby about her? She has drawn many people here into her stories and then changes them. There are many people who genuinely want to help her but no one can if she is lying.

Tabby, please understand that we are discussing you because no one is sure how to help you. I have looked at your profile, and you have many friends listed that are not on this site. And have seen that you are getting support elsewhere.
So, what is it that draws you to this site? And, how do you think we can help you?
There are people suffering here with the kind of physical pain that I think you cannot yet imagine. And, in spite of your unwillingness or inability to be honest with them, they have continued to try to help you. I don't know if you are mature enough yet to realize what a precious gift that is
I'm trying to address you like an adult,'though it may not sound that way because I am old enough to be your mother.

I, too am curious for information from people more familiar with this young woman-childs' problem.

Hey Pugglemom The reason I did not tell them about my caregiver while I was at the hospital is because I was afraid that If I told then they would find out and then I would be in bigger trouble The other day I was talking to my friend on the phone and telling about how my parents treat me but that they let my brother get by with stuff and my mom head me talking and she came upstairs and said y and gabbed the phone and started yelling. at me. You don't need help I am so scared I do stay home. I have to find a secret way of getting help so that my parents don't find out.. They asked me if I was stressed out I told them yes and they told me just to relax and take it easy I am not allowed to see my friends and that just makes my pain worse there are days when I wake up screaming in pain. all I want is to not have to wake up with pain in my stomach but that will probably never happen. I just don't understand why I am in pain Maybe its because I am a bitch like my foster parents said. I have had this pain since I was little. I have been complaining ever since my parents adopted.me. I am starting to wonder if the foster parents are to blame for my pain.

Tabby it sounds like your pain may be psychological. It is just as real as physical pain and can even become physical. Many people who are stressed end up with muscle spasms from being tense.

Your mind is the most powerful organ in your body. If it is not well it will create pain in parts of your body. So if all of the tests come back normal it is very possible that this pain is being created by your mind.

When your mom says that you are feeling things because your friend says she has them it could be your mind. The pain is just as bad but a medical doctor can't cure it.

You mentioned in one of your posts that you had been in therapy. SOunds like this might be the best path now. Maybe if you talked to both of your parents and ask them to get you back with a therapist they will agree. I'm sure they want you to be happy.

It might be I don't know I was in therapy at one time but my parents quit taking me. because they said that its a waste of time and money But when I did go to therapy my parents were always in the room with me when I was talking to my therapist I never got any time alone with them My parents always told them how bad of a kid I was and how I never did anything to help them out around the house. They would tell them That I needed to stay away from my friends because my friends made me act worse. I never got to talk about my problems and he abuse that I suffered while I lived in foster care. If I bought it up my parents would say Tabitha that's in your past forget about it they can't do anything about it. now. So now I am not in THEAPHY I need to be to get help but when I talk to my parents about it they say no your not going back. your brother the one Thats needs help he got severe problems were going to get help for him. but you don't need it and quite asking for it.