Chronic Fatigue Syndrome Support Group
Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME/CFS) describes a sense of exhaustion and post-exertion malaise, even when you have gotten enough rest and sleep. The disease is characterized by six months of incapacitating fatigue experienced as profound exhaustion and extremely poor stamina, and problems with concentration and short-term memory. The cause is unknown, but it is a...
Having said that, I have noticed over the last couple of years that I do have trouble with facial recognition. Not with people I already know though. I notice it most when watching a TV show or movie because I sometimes have trouble telling characters of the same gender apart. That can make it hard to follow the story.
I find myself short of breath, almost panting at times, from the lightest exertion, or occasionally for no reason at all.
It never even occurred to me that the ridges on my nails or the tooth I broke recently might have anything to do with CFS.
There are a number of other things that match but I don't have the energy to go into them.
My ears itch like nothing a normal person can even imagine. If I swab them with a Q-tip, it feels incredibly good. But then later I get earaches. I know I shouldn't swab them, but sometimes I just have to do it, you know?
I remember the eye doctor getting mad at me because I said all his test lenses looked blurry to me. He's a CFS denier, eventually I had to go to another doctor to get away from him.
I try not to catalogue my symptoms...that tends to make me feel really depressed. But trust me on this, I have a LOT of symptoms.
I have only about 1/2 my teeth left. The ones I have are all in the front so as they break I will let the insurance cover 1/2 and get caps. I tried a partial and can't manage a plate, makes me gag all day long. So I smile with my mouth shut and chew on one side. Implants? forget it, you need a mortgage for them!
Oddly I broke a tooth this week as well. DDS appt on Wednesday. I was eating a chewy calcium supplement. It yanked out my filling and part of the tooth came with it..
Does anyone wonder if perhaps we just don't get the right nutrients for our teeth? Since I've been using the flouride brush on rx stuff they gave me I've only had one tooth break in 4 yrs. Maybe we just need some extra help?
I find that knowing about all these symptoms is so reassuring. I often question if I am such a hypochondriac (as my family has told me for years) or I feel crazy, or lazy that I can't get up and do things. Knowing that these are actually all real symptoms allows me to be nicer to myself.
Richie D re: itching I too use a q-tip in my ears, and, omg, it is SO good. I also read with interest your comments about itching possibly being caused by our modern laundry detergent and washing machines. I am going to make a change and see if it helps. Thanks for the tip.
It helps me to read the symptoms, like eyes losing focus. and not recognizing character's faces, and losing my ability to spell. It's good not to be alone. Love this group, abby
I also have the problem where it seems like my eye prescription is changing daily, and I itch daily. I am super sensitive to noise, and bright lights. And my joints are always popping and cracking (and painful). As always it is nice to know I am not the only one experiencing this. Blessings to all.
When I stop to have a drink of water, I have to wait until I get my breath back or I tend to choke on the water. Just walking around slowly seems to take my breath away.
in temperature that I flush bright red and feel very weird. I think if I broke out in a sweat I might feel cooler. Only I don't really feel hot - but my body apparently does. I recently cracked a tooth - which was odd, because my teeth are usually the only healthy thing about me!
I have also experienced a lot of shortness of breath. Facial recognition - I can hardly keep track of characters in movies or tv shows unless they have a very distinctive feature or vastly different hair color from one another. And even then, I usually forget by the next scene. And I am having to read anything slightly difficult aloud - definitely not how I lived before I got sick.
When I still had my business, a client's wife dyed her hair. I could NOT recognize her...thought it might be her, but what if I'm wrong? So I just avoided saying anything at all. I think she was offended.
You can't explain these things to people...they just think you're putting them on or you're going crazy. I never tell anyone but medical people that I have ME/CFS anymore. It seems to work much better that way.
They just think I'm on drugs, and they treat me better...LOL. I guess there are so many people on drugs in my area of the country that it's something they accept in people.
I wonder if the reason why some people have problems understanding this disease is because almost everyone has experienced a few of our symptoms at some point in time. Everyone has had muscle cramps, everyone forgets things occasionally, and most people have experienced exhaustion a time or two. Therefore, they probably believe they have an accurate frame of reference. They can't comprehend that our similar symptoms are much more severe, often occur simultaneously, and they NEVER GO AWAY.
I feel so much better reading this - I haven't been on for some time, as I always fall behind in work, and fall on my face on the sofa when I get home. The itching! the teeth breaking! the reading comprehension! the changing vision! Also have burning patches on my skin where the slightest touch hurts and irritates like mad.
Have been sweating ever since I got this dumb disease - and shortness of breath was my first clue that something was really wrong (in addition to Fibro which I thought I had mastered). codn't climb stairs at work or go for walks. I was sick in bed for weeks (6) and then dragged my butt up and back to work. This was in 06. Had active Epstein Barr an several other viruses and mycoplasmas. Whee! let the wild adventure begin.
I need a sugar daddy to help me get my teeth fixed as they have been crumbling since 06 - but then again - I
have neither the energy nor desire to date - just too dang tired. So that's out. lol
I don't have problem with faces, (no - that's not entirely true - I sometimes don't recognise people form the past - I know I should but I dont - then later I do as if the not recognizing had never happened at all. but I do completely blank out on situations from the past - ie at a gathering of high school best friends I had no memory of a trip to the mountains we had all taken that was a dear memory to all the others - I could remember two scenes - but that took me some time to locate even those. Seeing pictures and wondering why I remember none of it!
I am writing this with my tri focals on top of my head because I simply cant see close up thru them today - had one doc suggest multiple pairs in different rxs - smart guy. too expensive.
Aww, I sure wish you all the best. I truly believe in the next 10 years we will be getting new treatments that will give us our lives back. Have recently started a bucket list for my 60's (I am 55 now with severe exercise/stress intolerqance - my worst symptom).
Love and blessings to all.
Elaine