So, the summer is over and we're all back to the "real world".  It occcured to me that I might need to be worried about maintaining NC.  My AP and I have a couple of pretty brief but specific ways in which we could cross paths, which both our BSs know and which (at least I would think on their BS's part) still causes them unneeded and unhelpful angst. I say "unneeded" because neither of us want to break NC and even if we did, this would about the last place/way we would want to.  We've been quite successful so far but I think alot of that was based on prior shared knowledge of "safe days", "dangerous times of day" and the like. As more time goes by, we have no way of knowing if anything has changed.  There should be a way to just go "Time out!  We're all adults here and we've got to take care of some logistics.  Blansday at flurbteen o'clock is no longer safe because I now have to pick up my veeblefetzer at that time. We're good?  OK, time in."  Sigh.  Humans and their complexities.