Cheaters Anonymous Community Group
This is a support group for cheating spouses looking for understanding and strength. Betrayed spouses are welcome to post ONLY if they can do so in a supportive manner (no bashing...these posts will be deleted), and please do not comment on 'Cheaters Only' posts.
I really need your advice. I was all mentally shored-up to break it off with the OM and focus on my H, like I know I need to do. My AP is always hot then cold. When it's great, it's great, then he drifts off and comes back. Lately he's been cold and it really helped my mental resolve to end things.
I was just about to end it and he got laid off from his job, his company is going out of business. He's in a major funk, understandably. It has made him turn away from me even more and is so cold do me. He hasn't contacted me for days.
I'm so, so, confused on whether to keep my resolve to end things or wait until he lands a new position. I know he'll try to contact me again sooner or later. I don't want to be heartless, I love him and always will.
What would you do? I'm afraid if I wait, I will be head-long into the A again and I won't be able to end it. Is it just too heartless? Advice please!
I was just about to end it and he got laid off from his job, his company is going out of business. He's in a major funk, understandably. It has made him turn away from me even more and is so cold do me. He hasn't contacted me for days.
I'm so, so, confused on whether to keep my resolve to end things or wait until he lands a new position. I know he'll try to contact me again sooner or later. I don't want to be heartless, I love him and always will.
What would you do? I'm afraid if I wait, I will be head-long into the A again and I won't be able to end it. Is it just too heartless? Advice please!
And really, you are too good to waste your time with someone who says, "that sucks, peace, love and happiness".....seriously? Where do we find these OM anyway? No wonder they are OM and not husbands......