Hey bs here. May I suggest you browse the infidelity board over the next few days. I think posting there as a cs should be done with respect for the members (majority of bs). Cs are welcome to post but sometimes a justifying cs can come head to head with a raw and angry bs. When that happens the discussion becomes completelyuroductive.

So maybe for now just browse and read through. When you feel ready then you post. You will see there'll emotions the bs feels.

Hey one, I agree with pinkpony . Don't join and post in survivinginfidelity.com.

Pinkpony is right about BS having raw emotions.

I recommend that you read as much of the survivinginfidelity.com as you want but don't join and post.

Hey Pink, I really like what you said in the above post.

Can I quote you the next time I suggest that a cheating spouse should go to survivinginfidelity.com?

Thanks for the added input. Will do. On the So Much Hate thread, Selfishmom recommended a Linda MacDonald book on helping the spouse heal to the poster. I ordered that for myself and of course Amazon has the "also ordered" section so I also got a book for her for after the affair.

Why Snarf? I just saw the first few episodes when they came out, but I remembered him, snarf-snarf.

Snarf , because thundercats was one of my favorite shows growing up.

I'm a nostalgia freak.