Cheaters Anonymous Community Group
This is a support group for cheating spouses looking for understanding and strength. Betrayed spouses are welcome to post ONLY if they can do so in a supportive manner (no bashing...these posts will be deleted), and please do not comment on 'Cheaters Only' posts.
I started a thread about the betrayed spouse ripping on the affair partner and the cheating spouse agreeing with and supporting the hurt spouse. Sometimes the exchanges there are funny, and I was looking for funny stories about that. I hurt some feelings there, and I'm sorry. I was being insensitive.
While we have all gone through a lot and are still going through it, I recognize we could all use a good laugh right about now. About anything. There must be some funny stories out there, and, whether related to the affair or not, I would like us to share them.
Laughter is the best medicine.
While we have all gone through a lot and are still going through it, I recognize we could all use a good laugh right about now. About anything. There must be some funny stories out there, and, whether related to the affair or not, I would like us to share them.
Laughter is the best medicine.
Please don't have tunnel vision Onendone. While you and your Lady Love ripping on the OW is quite probably a good thing for your relationship, it is well-nigh impossible for the OP on here to be OK with it.
So tell us about your truimphs in your rebuilding YAY process, but don't make derogatory remarks about your X affair partner. You stated that you resent the OW. Go ahead and start a post about that. Now that would be something that I COULD be supportive of and would actually find interesting!
I'll End This Thread Here because everyone's focus is not on he healing power of humor and my real point has been obscured by residual hard feelings.
Clover - It's natural for us to judge others based on the assumptions we make about them by observing ourselves. I tend to think the best of people until proven wrong. I think that's where we differ most. I know exactly what you're thinking, and I have no need to be that cynical because I have nothing more to lose. I've already lost everything. The divorce process is already underway. Nothing I say or do can stop it. You'll notice my mood emoticon has never risen above "okay". Yes, I'm severely depressed, but that doesn't mean I can't still find the smallest sparkles of joy in the darkest of corners. They're there; you just have to recognize and embrace them.
Thread terminated.