52, married 24 years with 2 adult children, recent empty nester. College administrator. Interesting demographics in this little study.

I am 31 year old male, living in Boston. I am an executive assistant at a university

46, accountant, married 27 years, 4 kids from the south.

So I guess I'm the old lady of the group! 57, 3 kids all out of the house on their own, 1 grandchild. unemployed at the moment. Last job. Student Loan Counselor living in PA

And I forgot...married for 27 years.

Im 50. married for 20 years with children. I live here in NYC but I am from a very conservative country that has no divorce.

This probably isn't a statistically accurate sample but interesting nonetheless.

Marytbj - good question. I was behaving likea teenager during the A. And I'm suffering like a teenager now that it's over.

Just drifting - thanks for the reminder that 75 is around the corner. You don't make many friends, do you :)

Details: male, 58, married almost 30 years, 2 adult children, live in northeast. Run business with w. My marriage isn't all that bad, but 30 years is a long time. We're essentially celibate, which I was with xAP since it was a deeply (for me) emotional affair.

40 yr old stay at home mom w 3 kids. Married 17 yrs. Been in my affair for 3.5 yrs to a man 12 yrs older.

45 male paramedic from New Hampshire, works in metro Boston area. Second marriage (I cheated my way through the first and met my current W that way). Together 12 years, married 8, we each have 2 teenagers.

51 yr old WM, divorced late in 2013 after after affair that began late 2010. Married 27 years. Tried off & on for 2.5 years w/AP - broke up finally in spring 2013. Didn't cheat on AP anytime. Now have GF for 9 months - cheated in past month. (WHY?) AP is 63 yrs old, twice-divorced BF. VERY good partner sexually - far better than GF, who is a WF at age 50. Sorting out things now.