Caregivers Support Group
A voluntary caregiver is a spouse, relative, friend or neighbor of a disabled person or child who assists with activities of daily living and assists those unable to fully take care of themselves. The challenges of a caregiver are unique and sometimes it's hard to find people to talk to who know what you're going through. Join the conversation and find others who...
i have been coping on my own trying to care for my dying Mother who I do love dearly but feel I am close to breaking point. No one in my family really understands what I am going through and I just need some coping mechanisms as I can't stop crying alone and putting on a brace face for everyone around me. I can't speak to my friends as they do not want to listen to my depressing story and I can't blame them really! My Mum is a very difficult woman at the best off times and it's hard as I am trying to give a quality of life - I could go on and on but we would be here for hours. Mum has Mesothelioma
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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Does anyone follow her? She's really got some good tips.
I don't know where you live,but in Canada we have funded home care.
It is not great,but sometimes it works.
As for your family,well I have the same issues with my husband's family.
I have been a care giver for 20 years now{my husband was injured skiing and has many disabilities} This is the hardest job I have ever had. I have friends that are supportive.
I never can get away ,but I can sometimes have a bit of respite.
I am sorry this is so hard for you,but you need to ask family to help.
If they can't or as in my case won't then you need to look at what might be available to help where you live.
As I have been told you need to look after you or you will burn out.
Not easy I know.
Praying for you
Laura