Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
He's treated me like a yoyo and this breakup I'm not going back, though emotionally I've gotten back into the tug of war with him, it was much better when I did no contact and just let him have his own reality and not try to change it, it's so frustrating. 5 breakups is enough, 4 getting back togethers is it, so why am I trying to have closure with him instead of moving on from something that changed from good to NOT.??
Loved1
PS he just showed up at my family's on thanksgiving, uninvited! Ah! So I got lured back in, not into the relationship, but his insanity... Oh God. Anyway I wrote about it in Journal on 11-22...
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Oh this must be so tought on you. Be strong you head is telling you the right thing. You deserve someone who is committed, loyal, thoughtful, giving, and mentally healthy. Don't settle for less. Don't let him continue to hurt you. I've got to learn the same thing. No contact, minimal time together. I think if mine had showed up at Thanksgiving I would have asked family to ask him to leave. If he didn't I call the police.
Loved1
thank you, the support here is what has helped me stay strong and feel I deserve better, it reminds me there is more to life than holding on to something that has changed, I keep needing to remember it is not what originally I got into, it is no longer something helpful for me or healthy, and I can't change him, I've grown, I need a nourishing atmosphere to grow. Thank you.
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The emotional "rope" that some use to tug us back is so difficult to "break". At some point you do break out those "emotional scissors" and cut the damn thing!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
