My husband and I have been married 10 years together 11. When we met we were so much alike and so happy it was unreal. We were so happy to find each other. He is a musician and I come from a musical family also. Our personalities meshed perfectly and we told everyone how happy we were. We met on my space in 2006 and always shared our cute pics and trips. We started cute traditions for holidays and things were great. Awesome went on I got frustrated with the band thing cause it took time away from us. In 2014 he disappeared from our house. I freaked out. He told me he needed space so he can concentrate on his bands and I was holding him back. I told him I would back off he came back and I backed right off and help support him and was there for for him. Things seemed to be a lot better. We finally sold a house we had that was in disrepair it almost didn't go through because of a lein on the house from an old bill I couldn't pay when I had lost a job. Luckily I had it paid way down and so I took care of it and it went through. We didnt get much for the house. He let the taxes go on it and so a big chunk went towards back bills. He was frusterated but we decided to pay up old bills so We cam move forward. I agreed. Suddenly Sunday he shows up says he got his own place and was fine with as he said this. I said what? He said bills always coming up like that. He was frustrated I had lost my job a few years back even though I have a great one now. He blamed me for the back taxes which he told me not to worry about at that time he would take care of it. I don't oboe what I did so wrong at all. He barely will talk to me and wants to be alone. I just have no clue what I did so bad?
I’m going to be attending some educational lectures on mental illness for my job soon - I’m dreading it because I hate how MH problems get presented to the public; they are presented very negatively. Not everyone with a diagnosis has all of the characteristic and many are high functioning. I just feel like I am crawling out of my skin when I hear someone try to “teach me” what...
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