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terrondt 09/10/2011

I came back from a movie last evening with a casual friend when my estranged wife texts me. she text that she left some chicken strips wit fries for me if i wanted it.from chillis she had brought leftovers home while i was not there that evening . i seen the food in the fridge when i arrived home but thought nothing of it initially. i replied i already brought food from my evening out but no thanks nicely. she then proceded to text me about how she could not finish it and how she lost 30 pounds from last dec . like she keeps texting me and trying to make nice plus remiding me about her wight loss. she trying to keep her hand in? what is this?

terrondt 09/10/2011

patti, several weeks ago she pops in and started talking to me like everything is normal but i stopped her at the punch and state"why do you come in here talking to me like everything is nmal between us?" she stated she wanted it to be civil and friendly. i replied lets not kid our selves and be phoney about it! weeks later she is still at it. im just trying to not blow my stack at her. when she is not here i really do enjoy myself better.. a few days after she left i was so damn lonely when reality hit me. much better now but still hurts. it's amlost as if she is doing it to upset me rather than just let me be!

patti22 09/10/2011

For you,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuZkUftTwKo

deleted_user 09/10/2011

I honestly think she is trying to keep you as her puppet! Something she plays with untill she's bored ! She's trying to make you jealous by saying she lost weight she wants you to see what she took away from you so act like she's not there next time she mentions her weight say you can't tell she gives you "the look" roll your eyes she wants to play little kid games so point that out to her ......

terrondt 09/10/2011

thanls for the you tube video patti.

patti22 09/10/2011

Any neighborhood dogs that might want a treat???

Karenhopeful 09/10/2011

I suspect she is trying to behave as if everything is OK so that she doesn't have to accept responsibility.

Perhaps you are moving on with your life and she doesn't like that.

Best to focus oj you and not engage her at all-particularily if there are no kids. Ignore the text messages. If you are in a city, give the food to a homeless person.

If she has moved out of the apartment, can you change the locks?

deleted_user 09/10/2011

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A_R218cr5Bg

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