fucktard

Could that be his way of redeeming himself with you?

Why is he talking to you about his gf? He's looking for relationship advice from his wife?

lol

And then he tells you you should talk to her?

This guy is a piece of work.

Fucktard..I still laugh when I see it. I actually sent that word to my stbx's "secret" email. Hee-hee

Because he's an idiot. Why else do the cheaters do this stuff?

hurting, he didnt cheat.

she texted you?? you know this woman and actually converse with her about their relationship?? .. wow.. you're a better woman than I could ever even hope to be..

I cant imagine even acknowledging my stbx's new girlfriend as a member of the human race.. let alone talk to her

Maybe because he is a psyco!

When you start asking "why" questions - RUN LIKE HELL!!!!!

Diemjs-he is looking for advise from you? My H (stbs hopefully anytime soon) has talked to me about all of her downfalls but in the end he talks to her about all of my shortcomings as well. Say noncomittal things. I mean what does he really expect to hear from you? Wether he cheated or not, he shouldn't be coming to you for advice or a consultation. What, is he proud of himself because he's cold to her? They are just looking for approval wherever they can get it. And he figures he can probably get it from you of all people. As I said, the less said the better.

Step away...

Sounds like he is playing a mind game with you. Don't pity the fool.

He actually chuckled when he said it. That poor poor girl. Whos laughing now!!

HA HA

I HATE men who laugh at the MOST unfunny moments.... that's rule # 2 - when they laugh at something that is NOT a joke - RUN LIKE HELL!!!!!

do you see a pattern - lived it!

I'm sorry to say this but he chuckled because he wants you to believe that he cares so little about her. I've been there and have found out the hard way. Just keep to what I said earlier, the less you say about her the better. His issues are exactly that "his issues". Don't let him catch you up in all of his drama.

thanks all. one more thing I want to say.

I know this man. He really is a cold hearted sob. He was that way with me.

I dont think he is trying to do anything other than tell me what his life is like since I left him.

I just wanted to know what you all thought about it.

I was hoping for more men to reply to get their opinion, if ya know what I mean.

I dont care too much about it, only to laugh at her now about it!

Am I making any sense?

Im tired!!!!

Yes, you are making sense. He is an idiot and basically looking to you for confirmation. Don't get caught up in his drama. Live life for you! He's the idiot, not you and he's the f'd up person who knows you're sensible. Again, don't get caught up in his drama and let him drag you in. You're better than that and don't let him drag you down a dark path. Hugs and strength to you!