This is an on going thing...Broke up April 2008. He got with someone else- they fought- he booty called me. They broke up, we started hanging out again. I didnt go out with him one night and he hooks up with someone else and they move in together. She threatens me verbally but she can kiss my ass. Hadnt said a word to him since July 2010- saw him twice during the entire year. 2 weeks ago he texted my work phone and was telling me how he hates her and wants to leave her- but wants to see me. I went- mainly so I can give him a piece of my mind and make sure my feelings are gone- which I found out they were. He has been back with her ever since, which was to be expected. He was always in the back of my mind, thought about him all the time. But he has hurt me so much and i dont need him.

So, why does he crawl back to me (and possibly others) when he feels "caged and wronged" and why does he even come back at all???? Its so mentally damaging!!! Has anyone else gone thru this?