Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I've been dating someone off and on for over 2 yrs. Yes, I was married for part of that time, but my marriage was over long before. He is still married, won't be getting divorced, although he's like to, but his wife doesn't want to share custody of their child. He is only 8, where as my children are 20 and 15, so I get the whole thing.
We had a period where we weren't together, and I met someone on a dating site. I met him ONCE at 1 in the afternoon to explain that I'm in love with someone else, and he needs to stop contacting me.
He left me a message last night informing me he was taking me out for lunch, and wasn't taking no for an answer. He also called me 4 more times during the morning, all of which I told him that I wasn't going out to lunch with him.
My boyfriend stopped over at lunch - he only works a few blocks away, and then after work - to find a very graphic picture on my phone of what I'm missing out on!
Thankfully, my boyfriend decided to let things be, and wasn't going to confront him at the moment, but if he had called, he would have had words with him.
Part of the problem is, he is a law officer, and is that appropriate behavior?
Now, my boyfriend's totally worried about my well being!
A friend suggested I go to the local police - he's from a different city - and file a complaint, but I'm totally afraid.
My boyfriend, as adventerous as he is, wouldn't even do that.
What is it that makes men or even women want to send pictures of themself naked to other people?
We had a period where we weren't together, and I met someone on a dating site. I met him ONCE at 1 in the afternoon to explain that I'm in love with someone else, and he needs to stop contacting me.
He left me a message last night informing me he was taking me out for lunch, and wasn't taking no for an answer. He also called me 4 more times during the morning, all of which I told him that I wasn't going out to lunch with him.
My boyfriend stopped over at lunch - he only works a few blocks away, and then after work - to find a very graphic picture on my phone of what I'm missing out on!
Thankfully, my boyfriend decided to let things be, and wasn't going to confront him at the moment, but if he had called, he would have had words with him.
Part of the problem is, he is a law officer, and is that appropriate behavior?
Now, my boyfriend's totally worried about my well being!
A friend suggested I go to the local police - he's from a different city - and file a complaint, but I'm totally afraid.
My boyfriend, as adventerous as he is, wouldn't even do that.
What is it that makes men or even women want to send pictures of themself naked to other people?
Tell the weirdo to FO, and leave you alone, before you report him! Hell, let your BF call him and shake him up a bit.
My BF called him Mon., left him a voicemail letting him know if he keeps calling and texting me, I'll make a complaint with the police.
He called me, today, Tues. with a blocked number, didn't answer because I knew it was him - he's done it before, when I didn't answer his calls.
My BF's concerned because he left a voicemail telling me he wasn't taking no for an answer, and was going to take me to lunch, so BF let his co-workers know that if I call, they know he's over, and will come and make sure he gets the message in person. BF works only 3 min. away, but he's not always there, he delivers things all over our state.
I don't think he'll show up, but one never knows.
Cheaters never prosper - I guess that's why it is said so often (especially here on DS where many of us were left for someone else in our marriage)
Both BF and I know the pain of having our spouses cheat on us. I know that is what brought us back together.
The worst thing with my husband, he was cheating on me with a friend and someone I helped get a job with my husband.
I understand everyone's pain on this site, but there is also hope of finding the right person.
It was your action and the risk you took that got you in this place! And my comment maybe visceral because your comment, " but my marriage was over long before" That's almost verbatim what my ex wife said ....funny the kids and I never got that memo about the marriage being over....I still thought we were married and believed in the fidelity and its convenance.
And something doesn't add up here......you meet him online and then met with him once in person to tell him that you were in love with another person...Please....I have to call BULLSHIT on this one!
Until you change you actions you will continue to be plague with the exact same reactionary behavior. You have two children grow up!
And you post here to get empathy and support from us........... FUCK THAT!
GOOD LUCK