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why is dating again so hard?

ll47ll
ll47ll
in my thirties now, it seems so hard to put issues aside for the sake of falling in love again. Why can't we just forget that we have different beliefs, different routines, different types of music, shows, movies, etc. and accept each other like we did when we were younger? Is this blatant disregard for the inevitable divorce again, or taking a chance to fall in love again?
deleted_user
deleted_user
and whatever you do.....

watch out for.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJcqvj02XkM
deleted_user
deleted_user
A relationship is as serious as you make it. I think, as long as people are honest upfront to the best of their abilities, then a relationship is what you make it. I told the guy I'm seeing right now I don't want to be married, don't want him to meet my son for a looooong time, don't want kids. Harsh? Maybe, but realistic. The thought of a man being around me, day in and day out, makes my skin crawl. But, on the other hand, I'm comfortable being alone, but I'm enjoying having a companion.
Again, a relationship is what you make it. Go at your pace, take the time you need.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ha Ha look at all the tan douchebags!!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Look at knut

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xBLizhD_0R4&feature=related
lovingmyselfirst
lovingmyselfirst
just read this threat and i realized how illiterate i am in the dating world...which scares me, because i know im not ready yet...but when/if i ever am...will need to take an intensive crash dating 101 course....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh is he cute :-0. He'll shred you when he gets older, but I want to rub him with a fabric softener sheet and cuddle with him now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yeah, lil bugger brought a tear to my eye..

;)

Dating 101???

huh..
lovingmyselfirst
lovingmyselfirst
yap. any professors in da house?
deleted_user
deleted_user
;)
lovingmyselfirst
lovingmyselfirst
ok so, lesson number 1:
deleted_user
deleted_user
OMG foli Knut is dead??????? You showed me that adorable thing, and he's DEAD???? What a douchebag thing to do.
deleted_user
deleted_user
And the keepers dead too???? Omg they're both dead? Nice foli. Lol. Omg
deleted_user
deleted_user
ok......


lesson number one: easy on the freaking tongue. At the very beginning of a first kiss, try to refrain from shoving your tongue down her throat. All you need to start with is a gentle, relaxed mouth that is slightly open to let her know that you're interested in kissing with tongue further down the line if she's interested, too.

Oh sorry wrong lesson....

Lesson DATING #1:


Take your time,sometimes it takes a little sacrifice to get what you want, so stick with it!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes, well now I'm mortified and horny. Thanks again.
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL...... I had no idea???

The poor bears mom left him, then the guy who raised him passed from a heart attack.....



I looked it said he had some brain swelling from a infection... his living quarters must not have been clean??

that os so sad...