Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
my husband left again on wednesday after 1 week of trying to give our marriage another go.it was his choice,apparently things were too differant and he dosent love me anymore.
it was heartbreaking for us and the children and we was in quite a state when he left.So yesterday both our children tried to call him to see how he was doing and he didnt awnser thier calls.
even though i know the best thing for us is no contact why would he ignore his children?its never happend before,hes always picked up straight away when they have called him.what do i tell them?its so hard to see them so upset but im fed up covering for him.i cant do it anymore.
it was heartbreaking for us and the children and we was in quite a state when he left.So yesterday both our children tried to call him to see how he was doing and he didnt awnser thier calls.
even though i know the best thing for us is no contact why would he ignore his children?its never happend before,hes always picked up straight away when they have called him.what do i tell them?its so hard to see them so upset but im fed up covering for him.i cant do it anymore.
when my x left back in 89..rach wrote a letter and put it in his briefcase before he left (and i didnt know it)
it simply said daddy please dont go - i love you
i found it crumpled up in the drive way - i never told her
hon, theres no explaining why they do what they do..they dont realize the damage they do to the kids
Dont ever talk ill of your mother around the kids ever
Lways show them that he is a good man.
Even if he isnt.
We dont talk bad about other peoples parents in fron of those kids.
I send my kids bday letters and weekly letters from their mom with presnests holiday stuff and the like.
My wife has abandon us after the divorce.
I only tell them the truth about her.
I skip the bad.
and keep it real.
SO far they dont resent her but miss her.
We do counoling and more.
Get a book about how to raise kids in a break up or divorce.
And follow it.
Thise things are written by profesionals who know how to get us throuhh these tough times.
Matt
that said, her continued neglect in child support only makes them suffer. Being a good parent is about a hell of a lot more than giving hugs and kisses every two weeks, taking them to movies and telling them you miss them.
Lynne