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This weekend, I spent a lot of time dwelling on the past. Well, that was a mistake. It prevented me from doing many things that would have been beneficial to my life. I kind of sat around thinking negatively, rather than doing something positive. Bad Rman...What a waste of time.
I realized that dwelling on the past, only robbed me of the present and future. The past is the past...period. While I will never forget what has happened to me in the past, I'm not going to let that shit rob me of my present and future living. So, today I'm going to try and stay in the present and hope for a positive future. A future filled with tacos and good stuff like that...
I realized that dwelling on the past, only robbed me of the present and future. The past is the past...period. While I will never forget what has happened to me in the past, I'm not going to let that shit rob me of my present and future living. So, today I'm going to try and stay in the present and hope for a positive future. A future filled with tacos and good stuff like that...
Rman
I wanted to say "30." Z...bear with me...I'm a greiving man, ok?
deleted_user
I was right there with you. I reflected way too much on my past life. Even wrote a journal, I am trying to see the future. Do you happen to have a crystal ball laying around anywhere???
Rman
mamalyn and jaken said ball.....huh, huh...
deleted_user
Yes Jaken, Mamalyn is always sweet and tries hard to keep things out of the gutter. LOL
CowgirlKathi
There is nothing wrong with REFLECTING on the past, but to DWELL on it is counter-productive to growth. Mindful reflection clears our mind as to which way to move forward in a positive way. We can't control our future any more than we can change the past, but we can be MINDFUL of what we have learned and do our best to enjoy THE MOMENT. When you think about it, all we really have is this moment...there are no guarantees beyond that.
deleted_user
I think the reason dwelling on the past is bad is because we have no control over the past. Its over and done and we cant change anything about it. Always look forward and never back. We do have control over the future. All you can do with the past is learn from it.
FrankTheGreat
Well, wtf? Are Rman and Kelly getting it on or not? Inquiring lonely and horny divorcees want to know.
deleted_user
Why do you think they're not posting, Frank? ;)
deleted_user
FOOOOOORTEEEEEEE
deleted_user
FobT1!
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