Avoid going to the bankruptcy lawyer to get that done so we can file for divorce already? It was her idea to get seperated, I didnt want too but did it because she wanted too. She hid the fact that she destroyed us financially (long story, even had our mail delivered on different days so I wouldnt see it) but i forgave her for that. She slept with someone else while we were seperated (which was the only thing I asked her not to do when I agreed to seperate). She moved out over a month ago and left me and the kids. All in all, it has been since November that this started.

So why avoid it? I want it done so I can move on. I can not think of seeing anyone else because I made a promise when we got married. Why is she doing this? Isnt this the path we are on, isnt this the end game? I must be crazy!!!!!

I am just glad that I am not mad anymore, I just dont understand this. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.