Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My ex of six years keeps coming back in my life but he is very honest about how he loves me but he isnt in love with me. Whenever we hang out he doesnt call me for days and i get so upset but i dont know why i do this to myself. He says he wants variety but i really do think he would date someone if he liked her. Im so upset that he doesnt want me.
What if he replaced "I love you but I am not in love with you" with "I just want to have sex with you when I want to have sex with you, then forget I know you".
You're a walking vagina to this man. He doesn't want variety, he wants to get laid. When he can't find any "strange", he'll accept yours.
See your value.
I hope you will think about not letting him upset you all the time and go no contact and stop his abusing you. You need to take care of making you happy and having a life apart from him. As soon as this clown is out of your life, I believe it will be much easier to move on and be happy. You will be free to find someone who really cares about you.