I almost broke down and called my ex last night. For some reason I didn't. It was hard. My friend told me today to call him at anytime when I feel that way. Try finding someone you can call when you have that feeling. Or please post on DS. Someone is always here to support you in those moments.

I know it's tough ... wanting to feel the renaments.

but one ends up sadder each time. I do.
Please try to stay strong.

Yeah I have the urge to talk to him but have resisted. He is in the next room.

almost daily I want to call her or go see her & plead with her to give us another chance,, seems like a bad idea right now

i am chatting with him ....should not be

When we have no one else we even turn to those who have betrayed us.

You have to realize how much worse you're going to feel when you don't get the response you want, keep your dignity and find other avenues of support.

If the man broke it off with you, you have to respect his desire to do so and there is no more contacting him to see how he's doing. If you broke it off its not right to keep calling the guy and insinuating yourself on his life and playing games with his emottions. Its over, and for me the fact that I WAS so dependent on him for emotional support/companionship was the lesson. No one should be your entire world. Its limiting for you and puts too much on the other person.

This is an opportunity for you, though its hurtful and upsetting, to revamp your life. Focus on yourself and grow from this.

Come here, and here a support system in your real life, but you can't continue to call him and hurt yourself like this.

Supposed to read CREATE a support system in real life...

Sorry :(

And stop waiting for him to call. I just read your profile girlfrind and he may NEVER call.

You lost someone and maybe latched on to someone new and read too much into the relationship out of need and fear??? IDK, but have you considered counseling because you may be entering relationships with unrealistice expectations of the other person and your "need" may be too much.

Please resist the urge--call someone else instead. Calling him will only hurt you in the long run.

Sending hugs!

Hurting - what you say is so true.
I will try doing that !

thank you