Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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GuyInDarkness 02/26/2013

So hard to no think of her... i'm trying everything to keep my mind off her.. fighting myself from trying to contact her, cause i know she doesn't care to contact me.. why can't i let go like she has... seemed so easy for her.. can't even get good nights sleep without thinking of her... just feeling broken inside.. gave 100% in the relationship.. i just wish i could turn my brain off for awhile...

ChiTownBear 02/26/2013

I know, man. Its tough. But don't think it is that easy for her either. You really don't know what she may be going through. Don't add on to your pile of shit you are dealing with, with something that may not even be the case.

hang in there

deleted_user 02/26/2013

It will turn off when you decide to turn it off. Not as easy as you well know. Think of the bad stuff that went on when you think of her. Tell yourself to stop each time you think of her.
Try and get involved with another woman. It will take your mind off of her. Even if you go on a internet blind date.
Have a positive vision of your life. Don't go backwards on that broken ride.

deleted_user 02/27/2013

Every time I see my ex I want to hold him and kiss him and tell him that I love him. Then I think of how much hes shown he cares naught for me and the children. I think of how badly he hurt them and broke my heart...then I can't wait to move on and I look forward to finding someone who will love me genuinely.

What you are going through is very, very hard. I hope you feel bunches better soon.

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