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charliegirl29
charliegirl29
Where do you go to have a good conversation. I spend my weekends with my husband but since we have had a lot of really bad issues I find it extremely hard to have a decent conversation with him even though sometimes we converse fairly well with each other (its few and far between). I sometimes dread being around him because of this. I feel like Im treated like I dont exist at all a lot of the time. Where in the world do you find someone to have a good conversation?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm not sure but I want to share one thing with you to encourage you. Life is not over. If you do not want to stay in the house start exercising it does wonders for the stress level oe take up journalling. Go to the mall window shopping or to the movies by yourself. I'm a person of faith so it helps me to spend time at church or meditating on God's work. Learn to love yourself. Life's too short to be unhappy. I'm not sure if this helps but I just wanted to encourage you there's a wonderful life for you to live, just live it!
charliegirl29
charliegirl29
i have taken up exercise and Im trying to meet new people but Im not really good at it because Ive been a loner for a while. Im just very mentally tired from all the conflict in my marriage as well so it really doesnt help matters. thanks for the reply as it is really good advice :-)
deleted_user
deleted_user
why not approach it from two angles?

first, find an area that your husband likes to talk about. then talk about it together for a long time. eventually, that will make him connect to you in theory and he will want to talk about other things too.

second, find girlfriends to go do girlfriend stuff together. spending time with them will be good for you too.
charliegirl29
charliegirl29
I will have to try those some time .......im just trying to rebuild after a lot of bad crap and some days are set backs for me. thanks for the helpful advice. I really do need girlfriends but I have trouble with finding them but i still have to try sometime :-)