Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So I am faced with deciding whether to go meet my ex tonight. He has reached out to me last night and wanted to know if I wanted to meet after work for a drink. I know it prob means nothing, but I am confused on whether I should go. If I go, I will prob have a good time, but will take 10 steps back tomorrow. Is he reaching out for a reason.... Not even sure how to act, because I don't think I can sit there and not drill him for what he has done. My brain tells me, just say NO, my heart says something else. I am just so confused
He is definitely up to no good---at least for you---
(((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))
I keep things with my ex wife strictly to conversations related to parenting our son, nothing else. I don't want to get emotionally wrapped up with her ever again.
Like Kbb, I get set way back even if the contact is only by email and is completely business related. Our children are grown but about once a month, some loose end from the divorce pops up and I get sick to my stomach even having to deal with that.
The longer I go without having anything to do with him, the better off I am. Good luck and I hope your weekend goes awesome without having to deal with him at all.
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