Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband that a seprated from has been making rude comments about my body. He is asking everyone if I am pregnant that we know. He has told people this to people at my church and old friends. He is saying I have multiple boyfriends also. I have put on a little tummy because I suffer from having cysts. He knows I suffer from them. I am looking strong to eveeryone and that it does't bother me but it hurts hard. I sobbed for an entire day. The lies he is spreading hurt. If he ever wanted our life back he lost his chance with disrespecting my body after giving him children. He has made comments about my boobs and body. I work out every day and take care of myself. He is being so disrespectful when he has put on a tun of weight and doesn't try. I still wanted him even though he did. I can not take him back ever with how he is treating me. I need to set an example for me kids. Also my church except the pastor completly backed off. They will not even say hi.
Or maybe tell people that you're looking for a good bottle of wine to give someone as a gift. If they make some veiled reference to "you shouldn't be drinking"...replay "Oh heavens, what would make you think I'm pregnant, I'm not even sure that I'll ever DATE again!!"
If they mention something about your husband, reply "I'm trying to be understanding, but he hasn't been handling any of this very well."
Or depending on how old your children are, you could say "With what time? The 2 minutes I get to myself in the bathroom? This has been a very difficult time for all of us."
Maybe even tried joining a group? (Sometimes there's free daycare.) Maybe getting to know some of the people a bit more personally might put an end to some of the comments. Generally...most people will give themselves away in time. (If he implies you were off on a date on Fri night, when you were actually at the church Bible study....)