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My b/f and i just broke up a few weeks ago. Ii'm ok with it but he is not. He has things in here that I want him to take and last weekend he took half of it. Now i want his TV and FUton gone to. He took half on saturday and said he was going to take these other things on sunday. Well sunday comes and he has not called, his excuse is he is to upset to get it. WTF i'm so sick of this! Is it wrong of me at this poing to tell him its to late and now this is considered mine since he will not come and get them? I just dont want to talk to him anymore, its over. The week we broke up he kept calling me everyday, he didn't understand to not call me and that it was over and we need to make arrangmeents for him to get his stuff out of here. But everytime we talked he couldn't take about his stuff. I'm ready to just drop his stuff on on his driveway and just keep the 55inch tv. Is that wrong? I was brought up htat if its your things you go get it, you can expect someone to drop off their things regardless of reason. If its theres, the get it.
I'm not a bitch and want to tgive it back to him, but he finds excuses as to why he cant get his stuff, god i'm so mad about this.
I'm not a bitch and want to tgive it back to him, but he finds excuses as to why he cant get his stuff, god i'm so mad about this.
So give him notice that he has until a certain date to get his stuff, make sure that you have a record of this notification, and then the ball is in his court.
You may want to Google "property abandonment laws in Illinois".
hell NO I am no dishing out any money on his behalf because one night while he was intoxicated that he decided to up and leave.
I will keep it for awhile and then probably sell or throw out.
he should of thought about it before he just up and left in such a hurry!
Video tape yourself destroying something that has little importance or value.
Let him know that you are going to wreck something new every day until he comes to get the junk.
That should get some response out of him.
Give him a notice, like said, then either donate it or put it outside and tell him its out there.
Don't keep any of his things, like the tv, unless he gives it to you.
Tell him you want to see him at his place, and take all his stuff with you.
:)