Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
BPII bf broke up w/me last night on the phone. "you are a wonderful person, just not right for me." ok, what am I missing here? I was supportive as anyone could possibly be,went out of my way to be with him when he was suicidal. Now he is on the path he was meant to be on (this is 6 months later), so he says. Going to grad school 2 nights/week. Not working just that. Sees himself making contacts/traveling all over to interview people for his yet undecided thesis. I feel like I was used in a way, and now I am thrown away like so much trash for stupid reasons. (see my journal for details). Am I a fool to believe this isn't really HIM but the bipolar?? Help me understand this because I just don't at all. I even think I love him, how bad is that? I feel so alone right now. All I hear is 'not right for me'...does he know what that even is?
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I agree. You were used. Maybe he didn't intend to use you, but it turned out that way. Next time you will know to run the second you see that a man is needy or emotionally unstable. Fortunately for you, you were only together for six months instead of six years, so it shouldn't take too long to get over him, especially if you take immediate action to get involved with some single groups to feel that social gap that is in your life right now. I don't necessarily mean find a man, but find other singles to do things with. You may want to look in the entertainment section of your local newspaper to find clubs to join. Meanwhile, try not to focus on the past, and know that time will heal. I expect he will show back up one day, and you will need to be strong by then to be able to resist your compasionate nature so that you can properly kick him to the curb then. Good luck and remember you are not really alone, there are hundreds of us.
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Correction: "Fill" not "Feel"
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