I have a similar fear, never find love again. I think we all do here. The disgarded pile is and can be a hard place to bounce back from. I am about at the filing of papers stage. It will be by both of us, a thousand reasons. I wonder will anyone want a father of seven with as many jobs as I have. I know for the ladies here the same fear exists. I have hope, for all of us! Hang in there.

Shoot, it could be cus of a lot of things. If we look at the two general commonalities of those who are in the dating scene these days you find:

1) Its because they feel that two months is such a long time to still be with someone. That the talk of seriousness or marriage should be starting soon. But wait, I dont feel that strongly about this person yet, so I must not like them that much. So let me go back to the market to look at more cuts of meat.

Please don't let things simmer, grow and allow for the time to really know if someone is for them or not. They jump too quick, in either direction; to marriage or to another. its all really too confusing and tiresome to weed through the dating scene. its a mess out there.

2) Its because they get bored. Lots of options out there now with online dating, that most have a dating profile and when the next "cute" thing comes along, they fall out of whatever they were in. They want to play the Tinder, Match, or whatever other app is out there game, versus feeling all tied down with one person.

So much candy, in so many flavors how could any one person only choose one? (insert sarcasm)