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I don't miss wondering where he is, why isn't he home yet and what is he hiding.
I don't miss being under his thumb and jumping though one hoop only to be presented with another
I miss....well...he made really good bar-b-que
I do miss the sex, the chocolate chip pancakes, having another adult in the house to occasionally change the dirty diapers, and the way he made my coffee for me almost every morning.
I will NOT miss
his verbal abuse
his emotional abuse
his not being emotionally available
his lack of libido
his bad sex
his childish temper tantrums
his negativity
his arrogance
his constant crying
it being all about him
the constant rejections
the putdown
I willl miss the beautiful man I once met and married, the beautiful smile when he would look at me with so much love, the intellectual conversations, all ofhis jokes
I will not miss list is just like afanador's but I would add CNN, tantrums, his paranoia and his farts.
Lynne
Alianation
Not talking
No empathy on his face
Worse accusation
Accuse on children
Living me alone at home and gone out with his mother and daughter.
Calling my family and friends names.
Constant judgement.
Ignoring me.
Hiding in his mother's room.
Secrets
lies
double standards
So what am I missing
Somebody to love and care for
Somebody's love for me
Sex - yes but many times making love was like he is doing a favor, because his ego was too high - so I guess no I don't miss it with him.
Going out with somebody - but I can do it again as well... - so not...
Nothing else
I guess I am lucky to have children, job, house to take care of me and children.....
gambling
bad sex
control
laziness
i miss her
eyes
her smell
really i don`t miss her anymore. when i am bored i miss her
The contempt in her eyes,
The taunts and insults
the emotional abuse and blackmail
the put downs
the constant rejections
the selfishness
the lack of sex
the sympathy fucks
the fights
the poker face when ever I tried to tell her what she was doing to me
the fear of what she is up to
the lies
the overtly flirting with my friends in front of me
What do I miss?
buggered if I know, but I still ache for her.
go figure.