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ll47ll 03/18/2009

when you've been seeing someone for a couple of months now and he still doesn't call but every 2-3 days? I mean, I know he is busy as a single father and helps with his grandparents/family, but being the needy person I am, I need to hear his voice every day now! He is always wanting to see me more often, but how about call more often if that is not possible?

Lee

FrankTheGreat 03/19/2009

I think the guy can still very as excited about you if not more and still not want to talk to you on the phone.

Talking on the phone is a very female thing. I don't talk on the phone unless it's with a female friend. Usually, I prefer not to.

Men just express their excitement differently.

deleted_user 03/19/2009

Maybe he's trying to appear not to needy. Or maybe he is secure in his relationship with you. If you have more needs....present it in a less needy way. Just ask if it would be ok to call and check in in the evening. Tell him you like the sound of his voice and you just want to know how his day has gone.

ll47ll 03/19/2009

Thanks guys. Idk... a good nite text is fine by me too, any kind of communication daily, just a simple hello or good nite, just to imply I want to connect with you somehow every day.

Lee

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