Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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HeaveToo 02/06/2009

Often times, while we are going through a divorce or a separation, we get too narrowly focused on this event. There is a lot more to life than this small piece of us but we don't realize that because it seems like the most important thing in our lives. Sometimes we need to take a step back and realize that the world is still revolving and life is moving on.

With that thought in mind, we need to bring things back by focusing on other aspects of life. That is where the question comes into play. What are YOU going to accomplish today?

It can be a small task, a large task, but ultimately we all will accomplish SOMETHING today.

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I'm going to do some laundry

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I have three different chapters to read in textbooks, go to the bank, finish taxes, take son to the doctor, go to the bank, pay the plumber, laundry, and dishes. Somewhere in there is eating, giving my son shots, testing my son, and picking up my other sons too.

--Sara

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I'm hoping by the end of the day that I have a new job......I have a second interview at a place I interviewed at last Friday....it would be full-time and have benefits....YAHOO!!!! so wish me luck, it's at 1:30 and I'm praying it's an appointment to hire me, offer salary and get a start date from me.....my current job is down to 20 hours....so not good for a single mom....

deleted_user 02/06/2009

already went o the gym. now I am being lazy

deleted_user 02/06/2009

GOOD LUCK BETHIE!!!!

I am rolling out our department's test website, I will finish my discovery, I am making a fabulous dinner tonight for the kids and some family. And I will drink some wine.

ChiTownBear 02/06/2009

I am going to accomplish yet going through another roll of toilet paper to drain my head!

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I plan on having a few drinks during lunch. Then playing poker tonight.

HeaveToo 02/06/2009

I just applied to 4 more jobs. I have sent out well over 100 resumes and applications. Still no takers. This is nuts!

deleted_user 02/06/2009

Thanks for this topic. For me I hope to get through the day. Tonight I am going out with the girls from work. This weekend I will try to attempt to clean my apartment. Hoping to take control of what I can..I mess. Other than that I am having brunch with friends and then a birthday party on Sunday....Man I am just trying to keep busy. I also have to focus on the future I need to make sure I have a job so I can take care of myself. Man I guess that was alot to take in. Like I said for TODAY I need to get through.

GeocacherNY 02/06/2009

I'm going to sleep. When I wake up I hope to have an email letting me know if an apt is available this year or not

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I hear ya heave.....there's not much out there, and tons of people applying for the few positions that are out there......I've been part time since July, and this is the first time I've gotten a second interview....it's crazy out there....very few jobs.....it's depressing to look, but I've forced myself to do so.......for my son and myself!

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I'd like to go back to bed and then wake up having won the lottery and with all my problems vanished. But somehow I don't think that's going to happen.

I'm plowing through my work, glad that it's Friday, and then taking my kids to dinner, which we do every Friday night. It's always a treat.

Then getting through the weekend and bracing myself for the 4-way meeting with my ex, her lawyer and my lawyer on Monday. UGH.

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I'm finally going to clean out my closet.

deleted_user 02/06/2009

I really need to get a few things done...

I have this bottle of scotch... I was gonna share it with BooBoo but we decided it would be best for her to have her own. So that means a trip to the store... Then the decision of whether I get her an expensive one... or if she is a cheap drunk and can handle the swill I will swallow.

Once that is accomplished I might have a nap... 3 or 4 hours.

Then I'll get myself another bottle and rinse and repeat!

YAY.

(((I actually have a ton of pictures to work on here at work... so I'm drinking grapefruit juice and munching on honey nut cheerios!)))

deleted_user 02/06/2009

Working out with my trainer. Cleaning house, hanging out with my 24 year old daughter.

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