Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I had this huge ambition to becoem a world-renowned professor of Marketing as well as a consultant to top service firms like FedEX, Singapore Airlines, etc, etc. I would have my Mission statement stuck in my work-place. I wanted to excel in life...reach the zenith of my career...and to shine!
But now...this ambition has gone poof! This blow called divorce seems to have knocked me such that my previous passion/inspiration/ambition has taken a back seat. The divorce should not dwarf me this way but for whatever reason, I 've lost the passion one needs to live , not just exist/survive.
JoyRide's recent post on 'purpose' made me think about this...I seem to have lost the purpose of my life which I've written about in the 1st para.
I am working again as a Marketing faculty in a business school but the job's just a job ...my motivation is lacking..i just go to work and come back...eager to hit my bed for a nap.
I was an energetic., passionate , inspirational person ...now I'm just the opposite. Without these I'm just going through the motions of the day. The best thing I like now is to sleep . Lazy seems to be my new name.
And I need that passion back to do /achieve something real good in my professional life to make up for this loss...to feel good about myself and my life again. Atleast I need to feel passionate about the things I did before. Maybe I need to start dreaming again !
But now...this ambition has gone poof! This blow called divorce seems to have knocked me such that my previous passion/inspiration/ambition has taken a back seat. The divorce should not dwarf me this way but for whatever reason, I 've lost the passion one needs to live , not just exist/survive.
JoyRide's recent post on 'purpose' made me think about this...I seem to have lost the purpose of my life which I've written about in the 1st para.
I am working again as a Marketing faculty in a business school but the job's just a job ...my motivation is lacking..i just go to work and come back...eager to hit my bed for a nap.
I was an energetic., passionate , inspirational person ...now I'm just the opposite. Without these I'm just going through the motions of the day. The best thing I like now is to sleep . Lazy seems to be my new name.
And I need that passion back to do /achieve something real good in my professional life to make up for this loss...to feel good about myself and my life again. Atleast I need to feel passionate about the things I did before. Maybe I need to start dreaming again !
the thing to remember is that you are human. you are normal. give yourself tons of things that are good for you and before you know it, your strength in lots of areas will spring forth into a new zest for life.
don't even think about it too much. don't even feel about it too much. just keep giving yourself input bu immersing yourself in everything good that is outside your door. :)
Amen, dbj.
I'm working on it--working on leaving this place. I certainly don't want my life imprint to be that I contributed thousands of posts on the BUD board on DS.
I know what i need...a Fairy Godmother who'll transform things for me ! ...transform me, infact !!