So I have been married for a couple years now and have a 1 yr old son. My husband and I have had major problems since our wedding night. His aunt attacked me and he did nothing, his family has disrespected me in our own house, he did nothing. He put his family above me and our marriage, and their feelings over my health while I was pregnant. I have learned that I can only count on myself. He never does what needs to be done until I have had it and am ready to leave. Between the two of us we have 4 trucks and a 4-wheeler, the 4-wheeler and two older trucks are his, these have not been used in years. His trucks sit in the drive way, and he will not sell them, our house went into foreclosure and he still would not attempt to sell these three to get us ahead like he said he would. We managed to get out of trouble, but are still behind for now.I would sell my older truck in a heartbeat to benefit us, but he wont do the same, I wont sell my older one to keep his older two running because that is not logical, but I am to my breaking point. I am about to put my older truck and my engagement/wedding ring up for sale so I can get out on my own and move on. And by me doing this he has said I am a cold hearted bitch, because he has been using my older truck as his transportation, and because I would think to sell my rings. But if we are not together anymore what do those rings stand for and he has a house, I may take away his current form of transportation, but he has a home already and I will have to find one for my son and myself and start over. I am a very realistic person, I take things for what they are, dont let people take advantage of me, and I try to be proactive and solve problems as they come if you cant before they start, and even though I have been open and honest with my husband about our issues and how they are affecting my feelings and our relationship, he cannot seem to comprehend anything to fix or change it. So now I am to the point of leaving and getting divorced. Other than this marriage, I have been in 2 long relationships and 2 shorter relationships, and I would have done anything I could to have worked them out, that is just the type of person I am, they did not end because of me, all 4 of these exs are now friends in some way, and have all acknowledged that they are the ones that screwed it up for their own various reasons. So from a person that would work just about anything out, I am ready to give up, but what else can I do my husband that claims he loves me and wants to work it out cannot comprehend what I have been telling him the last two years.