Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Today I had an argument with my ex who is still my office manager of a very sensitive issue. It seems the former employee of mine and my best friend of 25 years that stole her away from me decided he needed to file charges against my company with th eDept. of Labor. I had my first meeting with the DOL today and it could cost me a lot of money if the ruling goes in th eemployees favor. I was not told theat he was the complainant but others have heard solid rumors he made the call. We have always had pride in how we treat employees and feel we did no wrong.
When my ex understood who I thought did this, she go real defensive and started calling me names, telling me she hated me and worst of all said that she was sorry she ever met me. It hurt me so bad to hear this. I have truly treated her like a princess for 12 years. I regret nothing. If anything... I'm almost sorry i ever met her.
The pain tonight is unbearable. I just wanted to vent here where others understand what Im going through. The time i needed her the most... she quits and runs away from the problem. I can't even explain the pain to anyone other than those here
Jim
When my ex understood who I thought did this, she go real defensive and started calling me names, telling me she hated me and worst of all said that she was sorry she ever met me. It hurt me so bad to hear this. I have truly treated her like a princess for 12 years. I regret nothing. If anything... I'm almost sorry i ever met her.
The pain tonight is unbearable. I just wanted to vent here where others understand what Im going through. The time i needed her the most... she quits and runs away from the problem. I can't even explain the pain to anyone other than those here
Jim
You may be grieving the IDEA of them, and the hopes you had for them, rather than the actual person - if you know what I mean. Because neither person seem worthy of your concern or your angst let alone your love. It can be really difficult to let go of the hopes and dreams that we had for another person or a relationship - but in the case you have no choice but to do just that.
Keep reminding yourself that they are not who you thought they were - if you can accept that - it might help you to deal with it.