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Okay people - I need to ask - how many of you think that this is vengeful?
When me and my stbx got together, he showed me a book that his father had - one that was out of print and very rare. He made a comment about 'the woman I marry will find me a copy of this book'.....and so I did. (Well actually the book was no longer in print, so I called the copywriters and had the book reprinted just for him). I gave him the book and he was happy.
Now we are separated and things were going well (until yesterday when he bounced a cheque to me because of spending a LOT of money on strippers, and refuses to remove my name of the joint credit card)....things are becoming a little bitter from his end, and I have yet to do anything even slightly unfair.
I gave him access to the house this weekend so he could pack up his belongings and I decided to take a 'girls weekend' away. Before I left, I took that book! I know that this will bother him greatly.
On a scale of 1 to 10, how bad is this? (I can always return the book to him, just for now it is making me feel better). All this fuss, and it's over a book - can you guys imagine???
When me and my stbx got together, he showed me a book that his father had - one that was out of print and very rare. He made a comment about 'the woman I marry will find me a copy of this book'.....and so I did. (Well actually the book was no longer in print, so I called the copywriters and had the book reprinted just for him). I gave him the book and he was happy.
Now we are separated and things were going well (until yesterday when he bounced a cheque to me because of spending a LOT of money on strippers, and refuses to remove my name of the joint credit card)....things are becoming a little bitter from his end, and I have yet to do anything even slightly unfair.
I gave him access to the house this weekend so he could pack up his belongings and I decided to take a 'girls weekend' away. Before I left, I took that book! I know that this will bother him greatly.
On a scale of 1 to 10, how bad is this? (I can always return the book to him, just for now it is making me feel better). All this fuss, and it's over a book - can you guys imagine???
Why bother, your not going to change anything and really, is that fleeting few minutes of happy revenge going to really make a difference in your day, lol.
...Okay, it's a lot of fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now give him his book and tell him to stick it up his kazoo.
So don't feel bad about the book, but DO be careful that you are letting him in your house ALONE!!! P