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An update on me, well I have lost 30 pounds and feel and look better. So, glad to get back to myself and it feels good. I am a work in progress. I lost myself for awhile. I am so happy to be able to buy clothes and look better in them. It is nice to hear people say how great I look. Although, was I looking that bad? LOL.
This past weekend, I went to my ex's daughter birthday spa, her and I share the same birthday. I miss her terribly and she misses me. We have/had spent our birthdays together for 6 years.
My ex called me on my birthday and his famiy called and told me how much they loved and missed me, I love and miss them too.
As for my ex, we are on good terms and Today we had a good long talk. Overall, he is happy in his relationship with new GF and said like anything it takes work. He did say, he still loves me and misses me that he cannot deny that what we had/have was very special and no one can take that away from us. He said he feels he is in love with two people and that is something he deals with everyday. I asked him if she knew he felt this way and he said NO. He said her and I are very different and handle things differently. He said he does pray on it and does not want to hurt anybody and he takes it one day at a time. He said he tried for six years with us, which he did and then I said, and you gave up, and he agreed, he said yes, I did. He said he wished that we didn't have to break up for us to realize how much we mean to each other. I told him that it was not all his fault and that I know and feel like I took him for granted. Looking back, I did. I told him sometimes in life people need wakeup calls. I needed that wake up call.
Nothing new for me on the dating scene yet. I am trying to get out there more.
Please no negative comments, I am a work in progress.
This past weekend, I went to my ex's daughter birthday spa, her and I share the same birthday. I miss her terribly and she misses me. We have/had spent our birthdays together for 6 years.
My ex called me on my birthday and his famiy called and told me how much they loved and missed me, I love and miss them too.
As for my ex, we are on good terms and Today we had a good long talk. Overall, he is happy in his relationship with new GF and said like anything it takes work. He did say, he still loves me and misses me that he cannot deny that what we had/have was very special and no one can take that away from us. He said he feels he is in love with two people and that is something he deals with everyday. I asked him if she knew he felt this way and he said NO. He said her and I are very different and handle things differently. He said he does pray on it and does not want to hurt anybody and he takes it one day at a time. He said he tried for six years with us, which he did and then I said, and you gave up, and he agreed, he said yes, I did. He said he wished that we didn't have to break up for us to realize how much we mean to each other. I told him that it was not all his fault and that I know and feel like I took him for granted. Looking back, I did. I told him sometimes in life people need wakeup calls. I needed that wake up call.
Nothing new for me on the dating scene yet. I am trying to get out there more.
Please no negative comments, I am a work in progress.
Happy, happy belated birthday! ( : Keep on doing what you are doing...sounds like you are on the right path for YOU.
Well done.
I'm so glad to hear things are going well for you! Congrats on the weight loss...that's awesome!
Best wishes, always.