It really has not been that long since I was here. Was hoping I would not be back. I finally was ready to move on from the last one. Met someone else. Really great guy. He was going though a divorce his wife cheated on him. He had been separated a while so it was not a rebound thing. He had been married 15 years so commitment was not an issue for him. No red flags that I could see. We have been dating awhile now. Last week was the first time the L word was used. Then Thursday he says he is going swimming over at a friends house with his kids and I do not hear from him that night. Next thing I know she is posting a picture of him and changing her facebook status to being in a relationship with him. I have tried calling him but no answer. I am very hurt. It would make it a lot easier if he would just call already and explain what happened and let me get my stuff back so I can move on. I hate this part but I know I will get over it eventually. I have had a lot of practice lately with it. The pain goes away eventually. What I cant figure out right now though is how I keep getting myself in these situations. I am also worried I am going to have huge trust issues after this happening right after the other one.

Nothing no one can really say to make it better it is just nice to know there are other people her for support sometimes.