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sorry guys i just couldnt come up with a better title, just wanted you all to know that my wife for the pasts eleven years has out of the blue left with five of our children to become engaged with another man whom she meet on a web site only two weeks ago, and arrives here in Australia in two weeks time, yep that right she left me and our three year old girl for a guy shes never meet and has agreed to marry him....
makes the past eleven years seem worthless, you do everything for her, the dishes, washing cooking, help with the kids and work during the nite only for this to happen, jsut seems to be unfair. you do everything for a person, and you still get kicked in the head, she is so head over heels for this person she hasnt even messaged to see how our three year old girl is coping.
like i said unbelievable or is this usual?
julian
makes the past eleven years seem worthless, you do everything for her, the dishes, washing cooking, help with the kids and work during the nite only for this to happen, jsut seems to be unfair. you do everything for a person, and you still get kicked in the head, she is so head over heels for this person she hasnt even messaged to see how our three year old girl is coping.
like i said unbelievable or is this usual?
julian
Omg! That is a total shocker and undeniably one of the most selfish acts I have ever heard of. File for custody and move on.
You need to contact an attorney asap to find out what your rights are.
Hang in there.
Lynne
I don't know much about your situation outside of this and whats on your profile, but it sounds like there has been an issue for quite some time. You can do everything for someone and still not find yourself in the end with them. Wasted effort? I don't think so cus it is who you are. Never change who you are because of how someone else acts, or might treat you.
I think the writing has been on the wall for awhile. Time to spray paint over that and put up some new graffiti for your new path.
best wishes.
get your children back ASAP! she is nuts and you don't know this man. SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW THIS MAN! what if he is a danger to the kids?
i agree with the others get a lawyer ASAP find out what your rights are and take action RIGHT AWAY.
those kids need you.
Also, how do you know its only been two weeks? She c.ould just be lying about that. She obviously isn't thinking in her right mind.
Leaving the three year old does sound fishy as well. I don't know...there is way more to the story than what she's telling you
Have you talked with your other kids since she took them?