Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
She just texted and told me that she's spending the night at her "friends" house. Im not sure why this bothers me so much. She often dosent come home until after midnight anyway. If something is going on there is ample time for that to happen. I just feel like she is rubbing it in my face. I have told her on numerous occasions how she has made me feel in regards to him and she just dosent care. I feel like I have been tossed in the garbage and replaced with what she feels is a better version. How is it possible to feel so much hate and hurt at the same time.
I wish so desperatly that I could get custody of the kids and never have to see her again. She makes me sick. I dont think I have any ground to stand on to do that other than her sketchy, seemingly adulterous behavior. And I doubt that would be enough. Ive been documenting her behaviors just in case but I dont have any solid proof of anything. I hate her so much right now!
and taken Care of in her custody. Some states
Have behavior type of rules. My state is no fault
if You pushed it you could file for adultery.
You might be money ahead talking to a lawyer
To find out your rights. As i said every state is a
Little different often divorce rules are online for
Each state so you can look there. When there are
children everything is complicated More steps and
procedures.
I hated every minute Of my seperation and divorce it
was a big blur of Pain, hurt, rejection and betrayal. You
are just at The beginning stages. My heart gooes out to
you. It does get better after its over the healing can begin.
No more false hope and it is legally over. Its still not easy
Hope you have some therapy or support groups to keep
You sane. HUGS
I am seeing a therapist and I find the support I have recieved through this medium to be very reasuring and helpful. Its so nice to talk to people who understand how I feel even when I Think im crazy for feeling that way. Its so nice to be understood.