10 yrs. difference may work, but 20? I would think twice.
Like, things in common and
is this true love? Short/long term relationship?

Have better and broader view for the future.

Just don't use people, because you're just lonely.

My 45 year old X was with a 27 year old. Why would you want to raise your girlfrined? I wouldn't date anyone who wasn't at least in their late 30's. But I do older men--less games.

Well i'm only 24 so i would not date anyone yonger, but up to 10 years older would be ok for me.
I dont think if i was 40 i would date a 20 year old or a 30 year old though

I would not go over 2 years older but will go 14 years younger. Now if a 23 year old wanted to date me I would do it but know it would not be forever.

Age is numbers, I am 13 years younger, than my stbx, never a problem. When we where together, we had a great life, on all levels.

Dunno. My 23-year-old ex-wife dumped me for her 48-year-old karate instructor.

I think it depends more on maturity level than actual age. :) Hugs

I'm 37 and I tend to avoid chasing anyone more than 10 years younger. I'd actually prefer a woman on this side of thirty that has some life experiences and knows that relationships also take work, responsibility, maturity, and communication. It would also help if she already had a kid or two, so she doesn't feel like she has to have one with me, i have 3 girls and am not looking to be a dad again. Just my take.

I'm 40. If I get a chance for some interesting times with a 20 year old, I'm takin' it! Just to see. :) In reality, I want someone my age. It's hard to talk about music, events, etc., when you have to explain the 80's and disco, and President Reagan, etc. Of course if he's 20, I'm not interested in him speaking about current events. :) Bad me, bad me!!!!

Personally, I have a preference for men who are older. In all honesty, a twenty something year old can be my son. I have a son who is 25 which means I had him at twenty. I view twenty something year old male as developmentally not on par with my.

My ex was 6 years younger and it was a huge gulf for us, but I think it was a maturity level difference.. I have met others that are 10 years younger that I would consider dating.. I guess age is relative if it is the right one.. Kimmee

My stbx is 10 years younger - I don't know what's best.

My GF is 2 weeks younger than me. Having a late model ferrari is all well and good but then you got to maintain it, insure it, make sure no one steals it and remember Ferraris get old as well. LOL

15 yrs difference is acceptable to me that would put her at 35, i hope she doesn't have any baggage. lol

Are you speaking from experience, Sean, because I had a late model, and he was in good nick..