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Little bit of a rough morning today. One of those days when I just woke up and missed my husand so much it hurts. Cried for a while and got moving. I've been having a lot less of these days and way more good days, but every once in a while it sneaks up on you and hits you like a brick to the face.
I had a great therapy session last night. Therapist said she was proud of my progression and I seemed much sturdier than she expected me to be. I will admit that there are things that I am liking about my situation now. I kind of like being able to cook what I want, go to sleep when I want, watch what I want on tv or not watch it at all. This is not to say that I would give that all up in a heartbeat for another chance to fix my marriage. But finding the small things makes each day a little easier.
But the what ifs still sneak in there and I am sure there is no getting away from that when you are stuck in a situation that you have absolutely no control over. I miss him terribly his smile, his voice, watching him mess around with the kids, the butterfly feeling i get when I see him walk in the door even after 22 years. And it hurts so much the what if I never get to have that again with him. I cannot imagine my life without him. And i will never be completly without him. We are still friendly and we have the 2 kids together. I know if I need something he will be there in a minute. But not in the way I want him to be and that is the part that kills me. Just need to take it day by day and accept the bad days as well as the good
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I'm horrified! I knew my insurance would go up due to getting a new car but I didn't expect it to go up over $2,000. I did have an accident with the snow/ice in the winter. I was just telling my brother that I have had my car since March 2, 2026 and have only spent $75 on an oil change. Now this! I called another insurance company and their quote was over $4,000. I guess I have to pay...
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We all have 24 hours in a day. How we spend these hours is important. Watching a little bit of a video about how sitting affects us made me aware of how much sitting and laying down I do. Gonna have to work on that.Your turn. Tell me another truth.
You know what almost makes it harder i think is that he still talks to me when he sees me and texts me here and there like there are no problems. That's what gets so confusing to me. I don't get what it is about our relationship that he doesn't want. I may never understand it and that makes it harder. He hasn't mentioned the dreaded d word in quite a while but he also makes no mention of trying to figure things out. So I continue to work on me but still pray every day and hope for some kind of light at the end of the tunnel. I still feel that 22 years and 2 kids is too much to just toss out without any effort at all
Or need to speak to him. Only checks
In the mail or forwarded mail. HUGS
Not speak to me in a civil tone. Its was
pretty Bizarre that went on for awhile.
He was totally checked out and Unwilling
to work on us.
It was his guilt and shame and his cheating
In his heart. When we did mediatation, she
Brought it up to him after my lawyer asked
That he stop speaking to me in a such a
nasty tone.
If i saw him now he would probably be all
Sweet and so very pleasant. Well buddy
watch out, this pleasant sweet ex wife is
One pissed off person. He has no remorse
What so ever. The financial are the only
Thing that bother him. TFB
It was and got crazymaking. HUGS