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today is a new day

jdp369118
jdp369118

its been a month almost since shes been gone  and im almost completely ok with the fact she left. i am still concerned about my future and wether or not their really is a woman out there that will be my forever and not just leave when it gets hard or the first year butterflies go away. but for now im focusing on my kids and working on getting me and the kids a house. im trying to keep myself from getting lonely its still hard at night especially when the kids are at their grandmas but im taking it one day at a time still hoping for that country song love to come my way

Strong4me2017
Strong4me2017
That's all you can do is go one day at a time. Your wounds are still healing. I keep telling .myself the same thing. Love will one when the time is right. Stay strong
jdp369118
jdp369118
i am dping my best all the kids are gone tonight and the apartment is sp quiet. its hitting me to hard right now
sleepless1
sleepless1
First year butterflies! Isn't it the truth? That feeling can not last although its the best stuff in the world while its happening!!!! You have to find someone that you LIKE as well as someone that you love. I worry about finding someone who is willing to work for the relationship. Someone who will work through issues or problems that might arise. Someone who takes commitment seriously. It cant be all roses and romance. Darn it!
jdp369118
jdp369118
yea im lookong for a woman who is willing to do all that no luck yet
rose77
rose77
That is what you should focus on. A month is so new and you need not to worry about if there is a women out there for you, there will be. right now its about you and your kids
Shaner23
Shaner23
It's really hard especially when ur spouse moved on and already has someone, I did the stupidity thing today tried to get my husband to give me sex because it's been weeks even though he was with his woman all weekend whIle im alone it's hard.
Truth29
Truth29
What ended up happening ?
Jessievincent93
Jessievincent93
I complely understand how you feel. I was with my ex for almost 8 years and married for almost 4. I was young and naive. I don't have any kids with him. I do wonder on a daily basis if I will ever find someone who truly loves me and will stay with me forever, or if I'm destined to be single and childless. I fear I'll grow old and have no one. The loneliness is the hardest part. Not having someone there to talk to and just be beside. Someone to hold you and kiss you before you go to sleep. It's hard.