Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Ravenck 03/16/2017

I did the necessary things to get my life settled. I walked and prayed, prayed for myself, my marriage and my husband. I know alot of men and women are bitter after a bad break up... But bitter or angry arent apart of my feelings. Im sad, tired, scared and lonely. But each day that anxious pit thats in my stomach settles down. Yes, i want to be with my husband but at this point we arent good for each other. Ive accepted this and is ready to take care of me. I have to admit its the first time in forever i felt any sense of peace. I ate today and slept, the sick feeling is leaving. I forced myself to dress and to make myself look pretty. I know there will be rough days ahead but i wont let this get me down. I finally have a little pride in myself and whether my marriage works or not... I wont let this go.

livefit 03/17/2017

Good for you! Keep moving forward and stay positive!

Dandelion 03/17/2017

You'll be ok, you really will!

It's rocky sometimes emotionally, but the light starts coming back

One day you'll wake up and realize you're actually not devastated anymore, and you actually feel better.

Your momentum picks up and you realize you actually made it through!

In the dark times just ride it out and know it isn't forever.

LastAcorn99 03/17/2017

I’m sorry about your situation, friend. I can understand how overwhelmingly painful this must have been for you. That said, it looks like you’ve reached a place of accepting your situation for what it is, and I think that is a good place to begin healing. I said a prayer for you. I suggest you seek counseling if the emotional pain gets too much for you to handle. ((Hugs))

Lyne 03/17/2017

Ravenck- thank you for your post. I feel as you do. Each day gets a little bit closer to piece.

Karen_31 03/18/2017

I'm exactly in the same boat... I don't know if my husband and I are gonna get back together. But I refuse to give up on myself. And I'm fighting for my marriage, if it ends at least I know I did everything I could to save it.

Thesorceress76 03/18/2017

This step you have taken is a really big achievement ,it is not easy to try and move forward , you must always remember your worth and that your are stronger then you feel . Trust in yourself ,love yourself and be kind to yourself ,every step you take is towards a better stronger you . Some days will be harder then others ,on these days do something a little extra for yourself , take time to be proud of the steps you are taking ,no matter how small you feel they are ,because every step you take is a step closer to becoming a happier you . Stay positive and strong ,things will get better , it will just take a little time ,believe in yourself ,because you are worth believing in .

MissHopeful 03/18/2017

I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this. I wasn't married, but I'm in a similar situation. We let each other go so we could focus on fixing ourselves. It's only the second day without him for me and that sinking feeling in my stomach just won't leave, but your post gave me hope and made me feel a lot less alone about this entire situation. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this, but I know if you keep up with the outlook that you have, you're gonna be okay. I can tell how strong you are.

Feel free to message me if you ever want to talk.

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