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Quick rundown
Ex moved in with guy in another state during separation
..........same guy she was messing with before she filed
..........ex moves back to this area, neighboring town
..........ex moves BF from above to this town
.......... I mow lawns for extra income
..........Son asks if he can use mower to mow his Mothers lawn
.........Son is to busy, school, football, etc
.........ex asks son to ask me if I will mow lawn
........I say yes, if BF is not present
I'm not telling her he has to be gone for good, just not there when I mow, granted our son might be able to mow on the weekend, but really, why the hell should we even be concerned with the care of her lawn. WTF is BF unable to common things or are his skills relegated to inside chores only.
I know this is petty B.S. but dang, I suppose when the sewer is plugged she will want my help then too.
I think I might mow it and use some roundup to enscribe the word loohoooser across the lawn.
sorry for the rant, does this kinda crap happen to anyone else?
Ex moved in with guy in another state during separation
..........same guy she was messing with before she filed
..........ex moves back to this area, neighboring town
..........ex moves BF from above to this town
.......... I mow lawns for extra income
..........Son asks if he can use mower to mow his Mothers lawn
.........Son is to busy, school, football, etc
.........ex asks son to ask me if I will mow lawn
........I say yes, if BF is not present
I'm not telling her he has to be gone for good, just not there when I mow, granted our son might be able to mow on the weekend, but really, why the hell should we even be concerned with the care of her lawn. WTF is BF unable to common things or are his skills relegated to inside chores only.
I know this is petty B.S. but dang, I suppose when the sewer is plugged she will want my help then too.
I think I might mow it and use some roundup to enscribe the word loohoooser across the lawn.
sorry for the rant, does this kinda crap happen to anyone else?
Yeah, her bf sounds like a dud. I'd be wondering the same thing, why isn't he mowing the lawn.I think you made the right choice, not to do it, since I suspect once you do this one thing, she'll be asking you to do other things.
My guy friend, that I've been casually seeing for 3 months, ugh, has serious issues of still being whipped by his ex-three years after the divorce. It is rediculous... He says he's rather have his hair light on fire than go back to her, but I sometimes wonder. She'll ask him to get things like pick up matches for her candles, take a picture of her, or bring her his phone charger while she is at a ball game (because she forgot to charge her phone at home)... Stupid stuff like that... she is about the most lazy person I have ever heard of (she lays in bed all day, except when she wants to go out shopping/ spend money). Yet he makes excuses for her. Saying she is handicap. I tell him, if she's that disabled, then she needs to see a doctor, and get a note, then file....
He is ruining his own life by catering to her (what potential girlfriend would put up with this, yea his ex is pretty). He enables her lazy butt, jumping through hoops because he feels sorry for her...that she is depressed.... let someone else take care of her....
btw she doesn't have any girlfriends because women are too jealous of her... she has only had male roomates because men are nicer to her than women... um,,,yeah...